What Does It Really Mean to Be an LGBTQIA+ Ally?

One aspect that’s often talked about, along with LGBTQIA+ matters, is allyship. But what does this actually mean? Is it just someone who gets along with queer people? Being an ally is more than just having an “I don’t mind gay people” mindset. It’s about participating in all the things that help advocate for the LGBTQIA+ community.

Perhaps you identify as an ally, but don’t know exactly what that entails or what actions to take. Perhaps you’re worried you’ll distract from the LGBTQIA+ community if you speak out or stand up for them. After all, you want to uplift them so they are heard. Don’t worry, you’re not alone in not wanting to step on any toes, and your consideration is kind.

That in mind, here’s what it really means to be an LGBTQIA+ ally.

How You Can Help as an Ally

Allies use their platform to fight prejudice against the LGBTQIA+ community through their own social media accounts, starting fundraisers, or joining important activist groups. Here are some key ways allies can take action.

Share Knowledge

Often, conflict arises due to lack of education on a matter. Allies help spread knowledge and awareness about LGBTQIA+ issues and successes. This could be as small as helping to educate a misinformed family member or sharing statistics on social media.

This also means staying up to date on your own knowledge. There is always something you can learn about being an ally. Ask questions, do research. Don’t be afraid of not knowing everything.

Participate in Events

Another way allies can get involved is to participate in events. There are many LGBTQIA+ events beyond Pride. Of course, joining Pride celebrations matter and can be really fun, but there are other important events that we can participate in. These could be peaceful protests, volunteering at or donating to fundraisers, programs and community resources, etc.

Speak Up

One of the most crucial ways allies can help is by speaking up in everyday situations. Several years ago, the phrase “that’s so gay” was used as an insult. While we’ve made progress with eliminating some negative expressions, generalizations, and biases there is still much to be done.

Calling out harmful phrases or behaviors as they happen is part of educating others and standing up for the LGBTQIA+ community. When we call out undesired language and behavior, we set change into motion.

Empower LGBTQIA+ People

Lifting up LGBTQIA+ voices is important, but how is this done? Research and participate in state and local elections and elect LGBTQIA + leaders! Being knowledgeable about your representatives and politicians and their stance on LGBTQIA+ rights is important for creating positive change and moving progress forward. We must fight to end discrimination.